
Here are the tastingspoons players. I’m in the middle (Carolyn). Daughter Sara on the right, and daughter-in-law Karen on the left. I started the blog in 2007, as a way to share recipes with my family. I’m still doing 99% of the blogging and holding out hope that these two lovely and excellent cooks will participate. They both lead very busy lives, so we’ll see.
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BOOK READING (from Carolyn):
Music of Bees, Eileen Garvin. Absolutely charming book about a woman in midlife, lonely, who raises bees, also makes unlikely friends. Heart-warming and very interesting about beekeeping.
A Postcard from Paris, Alex Brown. Really cute story. Dual time line, 1940s and present day about renovating an old apartment in Paris, things discovered.
Time of the Child, Niall Williams. Oh such a good book. Very small village in Ireland, 1960s. A baby is left on the doorstep. The town all whispers and helps. I listened to an interview of the author, which made me like him and his books even more.
Sipsworth, Simon Van Booy. If you like animals you’ll swoon. An old woman who really wants to die finds a tiny mouse in her house and befriends it and finds a reason to live. Utterly charming book.
The Forger’s Spell, Edward Dolnick. True story. For seven years a no-account painter named Han van Meegeren managed to pass off his paintings as those of Johannes Vermeer.
If You Lived Here, You’d be Home by Now, Christopher Ingraham. Could hardly put it down – about a journalist who takes on a challenge to move to small town in Minnesota and write about it. He expects to hate it and the people and place, but he doesn’t. Absolutely wonderful true story.
The River We Remember, William Kent Kreuger. 1950s, Minnesota. A murder and the aftermath. Could hardly put it down. Kreuger has such a vivid imagination and writing style.
How the Lights Gets In, Joyce Maynard. An older woman returns to New Hampshire to help care for her brain-injured son. Siblings and family, lots of angst and resentments.
The Filling Station, Vanessa Miller. Every American should read this book. A novelized retelling of the Tulsa massacre in 1921. Absolutely riveting.
The Story She Left Behind, Patti Callahan Henry. Love this author. Based on a true story. A famous author simply vanishes, leaving her husband and daughter behind. She had invented a mystical language no one could translate. Present day, someone thinks he’s solved the riddle, contacts the family. Really interesting read.
The Girl from Berlin, Ronald Balson. Love anything about Tuscany. An elderly woman is being evicted from a villa there, with odd deed provenance. Two young folks go there to help unravel the mystery. Loved it.
The Island of the Colorblind, Oliver Sacks, M.D. Nonfiction. The dr is intrigued by a remote Pacific island where most of the inhabitants are colorblind. He also unravels a mystery on Guam of people born with a strange neurological problem. Medical mysteries unveiled. Very interesting.
The Bookbinder, Pip Williams. Post 1914 London. Two sisters work at a bookbindery. They’re told to not read the books. One does and one doesn’t. One has visions beyond her narrow world; the other does not. Eventually the one gets into Oxford. Lovely story.
The Paris Express, Emma Donoghue. 1895 on a train to Paris, a disaster happens. You’ll delve into the lives of many people who survived and died in the crash.
A Race to the Bottom of Crazy, Richard Grant. This is about Arizona. Author, wife and child move back to Arizona where they once lived. Part memoir, research, and reporting in a quest to understand what makes Arizona such a confounding and irresistible place.
The Scarlet Thread, Francine Rivers. A woman’s life turned upside down when she discovers the handcrafted quilt and journal of her ancestor Mary Kathryn McMurray, a young woman who was uprooted from her home only to endure harsh frontier conditions on the Oregon Trail.
A Place to Hide, Ronald Balson. 1939 Amsterdam, an ambassador has the ability to save the lives of many Jewish children. Heartwarming.
Homeseeking, Karissa Chen. Two young Chinese teens are deeply in love, but in China. Then their families are separated. Jump to current day and the two meet again in Los Angeles.
North River, Pete Hammill. He always writes such a good story. A doctor works diligently healing people from all walks of life. His wife and daughter left him years before. One day his 3-yr old grandson arrives on his doorstep.
A Very Typical Family, Sierra Godfrey. A very messed-up family. Three adult children are given a home in Santa Cruz, Calif, but only if the siblings meet up and live in the house together. A very untypical scenario but makes for lots of messes.
Three Days in June, Anne Tyler. The usual Anne Tyler grit. Family angst. This wasn’t one of my favorites, but it was entertaining and very short.
Saved, Benjamin Hall. Author is a veteran war reporter. Ukraine, 2022, he nearly loses his life to a Russian strike. Riveting story – he survives, barely.
Grey Wolf, Louise Penny. Another Inspector Gamache mystery in Quebec. She is such an incredible mystery writer.
All the Colors of the Dark, Chris Whitaker. A missing person mystery, a serial killer thriller, a love story, a unique twist on each. Could hardly put it down.
Orbital, Samantha Harvey. Winner of 2024 Booker Prize. I don’t usually like those, but I heard the author interviewed and she hooked me. This is not a normal book with a beginning, a story and an end. It’s several chapters of the day in the life of various astronauts at the ISS (Int’l Space Station). All fictional. She’s been praised by several real astronauts for “getting it” about space station everyday life.
The Blue Hour, Paula Hawkins. An island off Scotland. Inaccessible except when the tide is out. Weird goings on. An artist. A present day mystery too.
Iron Lake, William Kent Krueger. A judge is murdered and a boy is missing. Riveting mystery.
Tell the Wolves I’m Home, Carol Ricks Brunt. 1980s. A 14-yr old girl loses her beloved uncle. Yet a new friendship arises, someone she never knew about.
Four Treasures of the Sky, Jenny Zhang. 1880s, a young girl is kidnapped in China and brought to the United States. She survives with many hurdles in the path.
The Boy Who Fell out of the Sky, Ken Dornstein. Memoir, 1988. The author’s brother died in the PanAm flight that went down in Lockerbie, Scotland. A decade later he tries to solve “the riddle of his older brother’s life.”
Worse Care Scenario, T.J. Newman. Oh my. Interesting analysis of what could/might happen if a jet crashed into a nuclear plant. Un-put-downable.
Song of the Lark, Willa Cather. Complicated weave of a story about a young woman in about 1900, who has a gifted voice (singing) and about her journey to success, not without its ups and downs.
Crow Talk, Eileen Garvin. Charming story which takes place at a remote lake in Washington State, about a few people who inhabit it, the friendships made, but also revolving around the rescue of a baby crow.
The Story Collector, Evie Woods. Sweet story about some dark secrets from an area in Ireland, a bit magical, faerie life, but solving a mystery too.
A Sea of Unspoken Things, Adrienne Young. A woman investigates her twin brother’s mysterious death. She goes to a small town in California to figure it out, to figure HIM out.
The King’s Messenger, Susanna Kearsley. 1600s England, King James. About one of his trusted “messengers,” and his relationship with a young woman also of “the court.” Lots of intrigue.
In the Shadow of the Greenbrier, Emily Matchar. Interesting mystery in/around the area of the famous resort in White Sulphur Springs, West Virginia.
Isola, Allegra Goodman. Hard to describe, survival story on an island in the 1600s.
Save the Date, Allison Raskin. Rom-com, witty, LOL funny. Clever.
The Sirens, Emilia Hart. Numerous time-lines, Australia. Mysteries abound, nightmares, abandoned baby, weird allergies.
Red Clay, Charles Fancher. LOVED this book. Mostly post-Civil War story about the lives of slaves in Alabama during Reconstruction.
Stars in an Italian Sky, Jill Santopolo. Dual time line, 1946 and recent time. Love stories and a mystery.
Battle Mountain, C.J. Box. Another one of Box’s riveting mysteries. Love his descriptions of the land.
Something Beautiful Happened, Yvette Corporon. A memoir of sorts in Greece, tiny island of Erikousa, where the locals hid Jews during WWII. All elusive stories told by the author’s grandmother.
The Jackal’s Mistress, Chris Bohjalian. 1860s Virginia, about a woman who saves the life of a Union soldier. Really good story.
Song of the Magpie, Louise Mayberry. Really interesting story about Australia back in the days when it was mostly a penal colony. Gritty strength of a woman trying to thrive with her farm.
The Boomerang, Robert Bailey. A thriller that will have you gripping the book. About a lot of secrets surrounding the president (fictional novel, remember) and his chief of staff and about cancer. A cure. Such a good story.
Care and Feeding, Laurie Woolever. Really interesting memoir of a woman driven to succeed in the restaurant business. She worked for Mario Batali and then Anthony Bourdain. Gritty stories.
Everything is Tuberculosis, John Green. Maybe not a book for everyone. A real deep dive into the deadly tuberculosis infection, its history. I heard the author interviewed and found the book very interesting.
The Book Lovers Library, Madeline Martin. Fascinating read about Boots’ drug stores’ lending library. And the people who worked in them.
The Arrivals, Meg Mitchell Moore. LOL funny, about a middle-aged couple whose children (and their various family members) return to the family home and the chaos that ensues.
My Life as a Silent Movie, Jesse Lee Kercheval. About grief. A big move to Paris, finding herself a new life with a new set of real blood family.
Escape, Carolyn Jessop. Another memoir about a woman really in bondage in Utah, Mormon plural marriage.
Carole Pierce
said on June 10th, 2014:
Dear Carolyn: I have been reading (but not commenting) your blog for sometime. Loving your recipes and book suggestions. I have read several based on your recommendations.
Well, my husband of 52 years, died unexpectedly just 2 days after your beloved husband. You have been putting into words a lot of what I have
been going through. Yes, it is not easy. Yes, the unexpected hits when
you least expect it. The hard part is our friends are across the country, we just moved 2 years ago and really have not had time to find
friends here. Our daughter is here through.
So, I am thinking of you in your grieving and may we both recover some
day. Am still really not cooking yet.
Thinking of you,
Carole
Oh, Carole, I’m so sorry. You have a double-whammy with having moved to a new area. I’m SO blessed to have lots of friends from all walks of my life who have been wonderful to me. Seek out a grief class if you can find one. If you’re a Christian, find a griefshare.org class. Even today, I got on the phone with an old friend and I ended up in tears just talking about my DH. Thank you for commenting, and I hope your grief journey gives you more good days than bad ones. Pray. Have patience. Watch out for those ambushes. . .. Carolyn T
hddonna
said on June 10th, 2014:
Dear Carolyn,
I wanted to comment on this earlier in the day, but ended up just sitting here crying. Regarding your search for Dave’s scent–I don’t think you are nuts at all. I have a sweater given me by a dear friend who died of cancer several years ago. It’s too large for me, but it is very soft and it’s impregnated with her scent. Whenever I come across it, I just wrap myself in it and think about Jean for a while.
Unlike you and your reader Carole, above, I have not lost my husband, but many of your comments about the grief process have relevance if one is dealing with other types of grief, too. I lost my dear father two years ago, and I still get those ambushes, though believe me, I’m not trying to equate it to losing your life partner. I think it’s wonderful that you are sharing your experiences with your readers. There’s no telling how many lives you touch.
Carole, you have my sympathy.
Donna
Thank you, Donna. I question whether I should put any of this grief stuff on my blog, because I write a food blog (with books and travel thrown in) and I just don’t know that very many people want to read it. Yet when I do, it’s something I feel almost compelled to do, so I just go with it. And share. Thank you for your heartfelt comments – I’m sad for you about the loss of your father and your friend. I grieved terribly when my mother died 17 years ago. And I still do. I suffered for nearly a year about it (she died suddenly with no notice at all – which makes the death a lot harder to accept, I think). I took a few days off work but mostly I had to trudge on and get through it and cry at night. I cry easily, and maybe it’s okay for women to cry, but in a work setting when I was the boss was not. Sometimes I succeeded and other times I did not! My dad had a lingering illness, with several strokes, so I was more prepared and knew he wouldn’t have wanted to live that way. Grief is just a very strange critter, that’s for sure. . . carolyn t
Erica
said on June 15th, 2014:
I just stumbled on your website while searching for a gravy recipe for my husband for father’s day. I’m so moved by the loving thoughts you have for your spouse. Even earlier in our journey with a young child, we can never take for granted how much time we all have together. Thank you for this reminder to be present and savor the presence of those we love. There are so many ways I wish I could bottle up the scent and vivid memories of my child and my husband. Thanks for adding richness to our day. Best warmest wishes to you on your journey. How wonderful for your husband to be so treasured and so lovingly remembered, and for you to find healthy ways to grieve and still share with the world.
Warmly, -E
Gosh, THANK you Erica. I was very blessed to have my beloved husband for 33 years altogether and 31 years married. But I must say, as I’ve learned in my grief class, losing a child has to be just the worst possible grief. I cannot imagine. I just can’t. So hats off to you, for weathering the grief storm that must have ensued and that you can find joy in life. And then to lose your husband as well. I’m so sorry. I hope you’re doing all right. It’s been 12 weeks for me. I guess I’m doing okay, but it’s never easy. They say the pain just gets softer, and it has. . . carolyn t
Connie
said on July 3rd, 2014:
I haven’t been keeping up with my blog reading lately so I’m commenting on something quite a few days old. I lost my husband in October 2012 but I still get ambushed. The last time was when I was cleaning out a drawer and found a Post-it note with measurements jotted down in his handwriting. Wow! A punch to the gut! You commented about whether to post your experiences with grief. I say “yes”, when something especially moves you or confounds you. You never know when a reader may be helped (me) by reading what you say. One day at a time…
So right, Connie. Thank you for commenting. I could write an entire post about the most recent ambushes for me: (1) a picture we found on Dave’s/our boat of him with his 3 best guy friends, out for a day of sailing (and only one of the 4 of them is still living); (2) opening his wallet just yesterday to get his insurance card out – just pulling out his cards, etc. I’ve left the cash he had in his wallet just as it was (about $32); (3) lighting a candle at my grief class and saying his name, “I light this candle in the name of my dear husband Dave,” at which point I burst into tears. Then 5 minutes later we all in the class, in silence, blew out the candles. Oh my gosh that was awful. I’m still very new at this, and some days my emotions are still raw. . . carolyn t