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Here are the tastingspoons players. I’m in the middle (Carolyn). Daughter Sara on the right, and daughter-in-law Karen on the left. I started the blog in 2007, as a way to share recipes with my family. I’m still doing 99% of the blogging and holding out hope that these two lovely and excellent cooks will participate. They both lead very busy lives, so we’ll see.

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BOOK READING (from Carolyn):

Music of Bees, Eileen Garvin. Absolutely charming book about a woman in midlife, lonely, who raises bees, also makes unlikely friends. Heart-warming and very interesting about beekeeping.

A Postcard from Paris, Alex Brown. Really cute story. Dual time line, 1940s and present day about renovating an old apartment in Paris, things discovered.

Time of the Child, Niall Williams. Oh such a good book. Very small village in Ireland, 1960s. A baby is left on the doorstep. The town all whispers and helps. I listened to an interview of the author, which made me like him and his books even more.

Sipsworth, Simon Van Booy. If you like animals you’ll swoon. An old woman who really wants to die finds a tiny mouse in her house and befriends it and finds a reason to live. Utterly charming book.

The Forger’s Spell, Edward Dolnick. True story. For seven years a no-account painter named Han van Meegeren managed to pass off his paintings as those of Johannes Vermeer.

If You Lived Here, You’d be Home by Now, Christopher Ingraham. Could hardly put it down – about a journalist who takes on a challenge to move to small town in Minnesota and write about it. He expects to hate it and the people and place, but he doesn’t. Absolutely wonderful true story.

The River We Remember, William Kent Kreuger. 1950s, Minnesota. A murder and the aftermath. Could hardly put it down. Kreuger has such a vivid imagination and writing style.

How the Lights Gets In, Joyce Maynard. An older woman returns to New Hampshire to help care for her brain-injured son. Siblings and family, lots of angst and resentments.

The Filling Station, Vanessa Miller. Every American should read this book. A novelized retelling of the Tulsa massacre in 1921. Absolutely riveting.

The Story She Left Behind, Patti Callahan Henry. Love this author. Based on a true story. A famous author simply vanishes, leaving her husband and daughter behind. She had invented a mystical language no one could translate. Present day, someone thinks he’s solved the riddle, contacts the family. Really interesting read.

The Girl from Berlin, Ronald Balson. Love anything about Tuscany. An elderly woman is being evicted from a villa there, with odd deed provenance. Two young folks go there to help unravel the mystery. Loved it.

The Island of the Colorblind, Oliver Sacks, M.D. Nonfiction. The dr is intrigued by a remote Pacific island where most of the inhabitants are colorblind. He also unravels a mystery on Guam of people born with a strange neurological problem. Medical mysteries unveiled. Very interesting.

The Bookbinder, Pip Williams. Post 1914 London. Two sisters work at a bookbindery. They’re told to not read the books. One does and one doesn’t. One has visions beyond her narrow world; the other does not. Eventually the one gets into Oxford. Lovely story.

The Paris Express, Emma Donoghue. 1895 on a train to Paris, a disaster happens. You’ll delve into the lives of many people who survived and died in the crash.

A Race to the Bottom of Crazy, Richard Grant. This is about Arizona. Author, wife and child move back to Arizona where they once lived. Part memoir, research, and reporting in a quest to understand what makes Arizona such a confounding and irresistible place.

The Scarlet Thread, Francine Rivers. A woman’s life turned upside down when she discovers the handcrafted quilt and journal of her ancestor Mary Kathryn McMurray, a young woman who was uprooted from her home only to endure harsh frontier conditions on the Oregon Trail.

A Place to Hide, Ronald Balson. 1939 Amsterdam, an ambassador has the ability to save the lives of many Jewish children. Heartwarming.

Homeseeking, Karissa Chen. Two young Chinese teens are deeply in love, but in China. Then their families are separated. Jump to current day and the two meet again in Los Angeles.

North River, Pete Hammill. He always writes such a good story. A doctor works diligently healing people from all walks of life. His wife and daughter left him years before. One day his 3-yr old grandson arrives on his doorstep.

A Very Typical Family, Sierra Godfrey. A very messed-up family. Three adult children are given a home in Santa Cruz, Calif, but only if the siblings meet up and live in the house together. A very untypical scenario but makes for lots of messes.

Three Days in June, Anne Tyler. The usual Anne Tyler grit. Family angst. This wasn’t one of my favorites, but it was entertaining and very short.

Saved, Benjamin Hall. Author is a veteran war reporter. Ukraine, 2022, he nearly loses his life to a Russian strike. Riveting story – he survives, barely.

Grey Wolf, Louise Penny. Another Inspector Gamache mystery in Quebec. She is such an incredible mystery writer.

All the Colors of the Dark, Chris Whitaker. A missing person mystery, a serial killer thriller, a love story, a unique twist on each. Could hardly put it down.

Orbital, Samantha Harvey. Winner of 2024 Booker Prize. I don’t usually like those, but I heard the author interviewed and she hooked me. This is not a normal book with a beginning, a story and an end. It’s several chapters of the day in the life of various astronauts at the ISS (Int’l Space Station). All fictional. She’s been praised by several real astronauts for “getting it” about space station everyday life.

The Blue Hour, Paula Hawkins. An island off Scotland. Inaccessible except when the tide is out. Weird goings on. An artist. A present day mystery too.

Iron Lake, William Kent Krueger. A judge is murdered and a boy is missing. Riveting mystery.

Tell the Wolves I’m Home, Carol Ricks Brunt. 1980s. A 14-yr old girl loses her beloved uncle. Yet a new friendship arises, someone she never knew about.

Four Treasures of the Sky, Jenny Zhang. 1880s, a young girl is kidnapped in China and brought to the United States. She survives with many hurdles in the path.

The Boy Who Fell out of the Sky, Ken Dornstein. Memoir, 1988. The author’s brother died in the PanAm flight that went down in Lockerbie, Scotland. A decade later he tries to solve “the riddle of his older brother’s life.”

Worse Care Scenario, T.J. Newman. Oh my. Interesting analysis of what could/might happen if a jet crashed into a nuclear plant. Un-put-downable.

Song of the Lark, Willa Cather. Complicated weave of a story about a young woman in about 1900, who has a gifted voice (singing) and about her journey to success, not without its ups and downs.

Crow Talk, Eileen Garvin. Charming story which takes place at a remote lake in Washington State, about a few people who inhabit it, the friendships made, but also revolving around the rescue of a baby crow.

The Story Collector, Evie Woods. Sweet story about some dark secrets from an area in Ireland, a bit magical, faerie life, but solving a mystery too.

A Sea of Unspoken Things, Adrienne Young. A woman investigates her twin brother’s mysterious death. She goes to a small town in California to figure it out, to figure HIM out.

The King’s Messenger, Susanna Kearsley. 1600s England, King James. About one of his trusted “messengers,” and his relationship with a young woman also of “the court.” Lots of intrigue.

In the Shadow of the Greenbrier, Emily Matchar. Interesting mystery in/around the area of the famous resort in White Sulphur Springs, West Virginia.

Isola, Allegra Goodman. Hard to describe, survival story on an island in the 1600s.

Save the Date, Allison Raskin. Rom-com, witty, LOL funny. Clever.

The Sirens, Emilia Hart. Numerous time-lines, Australia. Mysteries abound, nightmares, abandoned baby, weird allergies.

Red Clay, Charles Fancher. LOVED this book. Mostly post-Civil War story about the lives of slaves in Alabama during Reconstruction.

Stars in an Italian Sky, Jill Santopolo. Dual time line, 1946 and recent time. Love stories and a mystery.

Battle Mountain, C.J. Box. Another one of Box’s riveting mysteries. Love his descriptions of the land.

Something Beautiful Happened, Yvette Corporon. A memoir of sorts in Greece, tiny island of Erikousa, where the locals hid Jews during WWII. All elusive stories told by the author’s grandmother.

The Jackal’s Mistress, Chris Bohjalian. 1860s Virginia, about a woman who saves the life of a Union soldier. Really good story.

Song of the Magpie, Louise Mayberry. Really interesting story about Australia back in the days when it was mostly a penal colony. Gritty strength of a woman trying to thrive with her farm.

The Boomerang, Robert Bailey. A thriller that will have you gripping the book. About a lot of secrets surrounding the president (fictional novel, remember) and his chief of staff and about cancer. A cure. Such a good story.

Care and Feeding, Laurie Woolever. Really interesting memoir of a woman driven to succeed in the restaurant business. She worked for Mario Batali and then Anthony Bourdain. Gritty stories.

Everything is Tuberculosis, John Green. Maybe not a book for everyone. A real deep dive into the deadly tuberculosis infection, its history. I heard the author interviewed and found the book very interesting.

The Book Lovers Library, Madeline Martin. Fascinating read about Boots’ drug stores’ lending library. And the people who worked in them.

The Arrivals, Meg Mitchell Moore. LOL funny, about a middle-aged couple whose children (and their various family members) return to the family home and the chaos that ensues.

My Life as a Silent Movie, Jesse Lee Kercheval. About grief. A big move to Paris, finding herself a new life with a new set of real blood family.

Escape, Carolyn Jessop. Another memoir about a woman really in bondage in Utah, Mormon plural marriage.

 

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Posted in Uncategorized, on March 19th, 2014.

dave 2Last Tuesday (over a week ago) my husband, my dear darling DH, Dave, had a stroke here at home. He had severe vertigo and then the vomiting that goes along with that. I, of course, didn’t know that he’d had a stroke. I called 911 a few hours later and he’s been in our local hospital, in ICU, ever since. He had surgery last Thursday to relieve pressure on the brain (because the cerebellum, where the stroke occurred, was swelling – the cerebellum controls equilibrium and fine motor skills). They kept him in a drug-induced coma for 4+ days and took him off the sedation on Sunday, but so far he’s not waking up yet. They tell us this isn’t unusual. His heart went haywire within those 4 days and they did have to use the paddles to the chest (called cardioversion) to shock his heart back into rhythm, which it did. His blood pressure was way up, but as the days have gone on, his vital signs are all stable and good. He’s on a ventilator, of course, they’re feeding him through a tube. He opened his eyes yesterday for about 20 seconds (but we don’t think he focused on anything – he didn’t track movement or voices), but so far he’s still wanting to slumber. I hesitated telling all my readers about this because most of you don’t know him. I don’t have any more posts “in the bank” as bloggers sometimes refer to it. The Nutmeg Muffins I made were the last things I baked prior to Dave’s stroke. I have one more recipe to go, but I haven’t written it yet. It will just have to wait. There’s been not one stitch of cooking going on in my kitchen for 8 days. And I have no idea when I’ll start again. If you’re a believing person, pray for my hubby.

I’m doing okay – as long as I get enough rest I’m functioning. I have been spending long days at the hospital. Two of our kids live locally and they’ve been wonderful. I don’t lack for friends who want to help, to visit me, or bring me a sandwich, or friends who want to give me hugs – and oh, do I ever need those! One of our pastors has visited him every day. We don’t know how much he will be affected by the stroke – but as a double amputee it’s quite possible he’ll have to learn new ways to walk, although since he lost his legs (below the knee, to diabetes, in case you didn’t know) he’s used his eyes to balance as he walks, so perhaps he’ll adjust more easily than they think. Won’t know until he wakes up, sits up, and stands up. I’ll write another update when I have more to tell.

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  1. hddonna

    said on March 19th, 2014:

    Carolyn–
    I’m so sorry to hear of your DH’s stroke. Your readers do know him, a little, from your blog posts, and he sounds like a wonderful man! I am glad you have the support of many friends–I wish I could give you a hug, too. I will pray that he has a full recovery, and that God gives you both the strength you need to get through this.
    Donna

  2. Melynda@OurSundayCafe

    said on March 19th, 2014:

    Oh my goodness, funny how close one can become through these pages. Although not meeting, I turn to you often for a good dish to enjoy and of course you never fail to help with that. Wishing a good recovery for your dear husband, and may you continue to find the friends and family locally where they can reach out and give you that hug you need.

  3. MonW

    said on March 19th, 2014:

    So sorry for all this.
    I went through the heart attack version with my Dad earlier this year.

    As a waiting room family-
    remember lotion to protect your hands from the alcohol wash stations.
    a nice big scarf to use as a shawl when the rooms feel cold- they do that randomly.
    Nail nippers/ nail file to smooth rough edges.
    Pack yourself a nice reusable bottle of water.
    if you don’t drink coffee, pack some tea bags, instant hot cocoa or instant hot cider.
    pack your electronic device charging cables.
    a family friend called us to go visit the local sandwich shops’ website and text her our orders by a specified time 2 hours later. She picked up the food and delivered it to the hospital for us. We had mixed health issues and allergies, so that made it easier to pick out items appealing to us we could eat. [ICU waiting room brain happens to families after a few days there- you can’t recall your favorite foods or recipes when asked point blank and your appetite shrinks greatly.]
    as a family- your time at the house varies by day. Returning phone calls is hit or miss. email and texting is far easier.
    You can check to see if you can bring a fan or music player from home for your husband. They allowed that for my Dad.

  4. Nancy

    said on March 19th, 2014:

    I am so sorry to hear of your news. You and your entire family will be in my prayers.

    Thank you very much, Nancy. . . Carolyn T

  5. Kit Schindell

    said on March 19th, 2014:

    Dear Carolyn.

    I’m a 67 year old Canadian reader of your blog. Just last week I felt urged to write to you to say how much I enjoy your blog. Like you, I’m retired (health care professional), very happily married (41years) and I love books and cooking, feeding family and friends, doing puzzles…(Were we separated at birth?)

    But I didn’t write. I’m shy. I never write ‘fan’ letters. I’m so sorry now.

    Well, Kit, I appreciate the note no matter when it comes to me. Hopefully I’ll be back in the kitchen again sometime soon. I just don’t know. I need to be with my hubby for right now, obviously. . . Carolyn T

    Just a few years ago my own DH also had a stroke, at home. I’ve been down the road you are on right now. He’s okay, forever changed in some ways, but okay. I am so grateful. Every. Single. Day.

    I am indeed a ‘believer’ and as of today you are both in my daily prayers.

    I expect you’ll be getting thousands of responses (we all love you) and I know the ‘pressure’ of having to respond to many caring people. So no pressure here. Just know that you have a friend in Vancouver bc who is sending a virtual hug and heartfelt prayers for you every day!

    Maybe we could correspond in the future. But for now, you have much more important concerns.
    Love,
    Kit

  6. Leslie Stallard

    said on March 19th, 2014:

    Wow! My sincerest wishes for a positive and speedy recovery for your husband. My Mom had a stroke about 15 months ago (at 89) and has recovered overall but it was several months of rehab; I understand the worry & uncertainty you’re going through. My thoughts are with you both.

    Thanks, Leslie. I know people do recover from strokes. I just hope my hubby does and that he has good quality of life. He won’t like living with lots of limitations. But then, nobody does! . . . Carolyn T

  7. Diana

    said on March 19th, 2014:

    I am so sorry to hear about your husband’s stroke. He will be in my prayers. It’s good to know friends and family are near. Take care.

    I appreciate your prayers, for sure. . . Carolyn

  8. Gloria - The Ginger Snap Girl

    said on March 19th, 2014:

    Hi Carolyn,

    My heart goes out to you, your husband and your family. Thank you for sharing. I will be thinking about your husband and wish him a full recovery. Stay strong!

    Thank you very much. . . Carolyn

  9. Debbie McDonald

    said on March 20th, 2014:

    Dear Carolyn,
    I am so sorry about your husband’s stroke. Through your blog and the connection with our friend Susan in Colorado, I feel as if we are friends. I am reaching across the miles to give you a big hug and will pray that God will wrap you, your husband and your family in His loving arms.

    Oh gosh, you’ve made me cry. Thank you. I did feel God’s love today and I hope he continues healing my hubby . . . Carolyn T

  10. Mary S

    said on March 20th, 2014:

    Bless you, Carolyn and your family. Prayers for Dave’s recovery and for strength and guidance for all who care for him.

    Do not worry about your blogging public. You are exactly where you belong, doing exactly what you need to do. When it is time, we will still be here.

    Sending you warm hugs and wishes that Dave will soon show signs of positive progress. God Bless and Keep You All.

    I so appreciate all the kind words of encouragement. Thank you. . . Carolyn T

  11. janet

    said on March 20th, 2014:

    My prayers are with you, Dave, your family and many friends.

    Thank you so much. . . Carolyn

  12. Monica

    said on March 20th, 2014:

    Dear Carolyn, my heart goes out to you. Your Dave is such a survivor, I’m sure he will be up and awake and about in no time at all. I’m glad to hear you’ve got such a good support from friends and family. I will keep Dave in my prayers. Hugs from San Diego.

    Thank you, Monica. I’m trying to keep my mind on the goal that he will be up and about soon. . . Carolyn T

  13. Connie

    said on March 21st, 2014:

    I’m at a loss for words. I pray that all goes right for you and your family. As a widow of about 16 months, I can say that life sometimes throws you a curve but your family and friends will carry you through the bad times.

  14. jan

    said on March 22nd, 2014:

    hugs, jan

  15. Toffeeapple

    said on March 23rd, 2014:

    What dreadful news, Carolyn. I am comforted to know that you are being helped and visited by family and friends. I hope, as everyone else does, for a positive outcome and you will be in my thoughts constantly.

  16. Dan

    said on April 2nd, 2014:

    I’ve been visiting your blog regularly (monthly) for a few years–and really love it!

    I am so very sorry for your loss. Your love and devotion for your husband has been very, very evident.

    I’ve been retired for a few years and spend a lot of time thinking about mortality. My parents are gone and so are some close friends. Growing old is difficult. Thankfully my siblings and best friends are still with me.

    Please accept my sincere condolences.

    Thank you, Dan. . . carolyn t

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