What makes my world rock? Having a fun dinner with friends, enjoying some nice, soft wine with classical music in the background, easy-going conversation, but enjoying it over a spectacular meal. Someone recently asked me why I’m willing to spend so much time cooking. Because when my hubby or a guest says “Oh, this is so wonderful.” It makes the work worthwhile.

I’m now 70 (oh, that’s hard to write!), and have lots of things yet to do in my life. My other half, Dave, my DH (Dear Husband) of 30 years, enjoys all my food experimentation, and God bless him, he washes all the dishes. Usually when we entertain, he even sets the dinner table for me, and does much of the grocery shopping (because he LIKES to). His parents used to own a gourmet food and grocery market in Ocean City, New Jersey. Long ago.
I grew up in San Diego, went to college there, married the wrong man for way too many years, had a daughter, was divorced and a year later found Dave, the love of my life. Between us we have 3 children (and now 5 grandchildren). They all live in California. We, my DH and I, live in Orange County, California. In the land of sunshine.
Dave and I have done a lot of traveling in our married years, as world travel has always been important. I took him on a trip to England when we’d been together for about 6 months, as a “test run,” to make sure he’d travel well. (He passed the test, obviously!) Besides, you find out a lot of things about a mate by living with him 24/7. Places I still want to go, or to visit again include (and not in this order): Tasmania, Spain (again), Rome (again), Venice (again, but off season), Newfoundland, South Africa, Israel (to see all the Christian historical sites), Stockholm harbor (again), Norway (again), New Zealand, and Alaska (again did that summer of ’09). Places we’ve particularly loved: Italy, England (our two favorites), Spain, Turkey and Alaska.
When I draw on my travel memories, favorite places that come to mind: the villa in Provence that a group of us (friends) rented a few years ago; one of the lochs in Scotland where we were the only car in sight on a very narrow 2-lane track – we stopped the car – rolled the windows down and just listened – to the wind – to the leaves rattling – to the lapping water – it was magical; staying at a very posh hotel on the north shore of Lake Lucerne (Switzerland), and a particularly memorable meal we had in the hotel’s restaurant with a view of the lake, mostly occluded in fog that evening; standing at the Spanish Steps in Rome; the Blue Mosque in Istanbul; waking up in Giza (Egypt) to look out our hotel room window at the magnificent pyramid; seeing Michelangelo’s statue “David” in Florence (it’s huge); riding a Segway in Paris; the unbelievably green grass in Switzerland in the springtime; my first visit to Harrod’s in London, many, many years ago, when I bought a $200 (then) Burberry lined raincoat and thought I’d purchased the moon; and the week we spent in Hawaii with all our kids and grandkids some years back, at a rental home right on the sand.
Reading is also an important part of my life. I’ve been in a book review group (through AAUW, American Ass’n of University Women) for about 25 years. Mostly I read fiction, but the “better paperback” choices, not pulp fiction. Lots of my book reads will be on my blog. Maybe some cookbooks too since I read and buy way too many. I’m also in a 2nd book group now, where we have a very casual outlook – no structure – just fun reading and discussion.
I spend way too many hours on the computer every day. I like it. Enjoy playing a bunch of different solitaire games, and doing my daily jigsaw puzzle at www.jigzone.com.
So come along for the ride, and see where my writing , cooking, and reading take us.




